Without the strict observance of the fundamental code of honor, no man, no matter how “polished”, can be considered a gentleman. The honor of a gentleman requires the inviolability of his word and the incorruptibility of his principles. He is the descendant of a knight, the crusader, he is the defender of the defenseless or the champion – or is not a gentleman at all.
A gentleman does not discuss his family affairs in public or with acquaintances
Does not speak more casually about his wife or girlfriend
Does not go to a lady’s house if he is affected by alcohol
Does not express anger or exhibit fear, hatred, embarrassment, ardor, or hilarity in public
Never discusses the merits or demerits of a lady
Does not mention brand names, exactly as he avoids the mention of what things cost
Does not borrow money to a friend except in dire need
Money borrowed is a debt of honor and should be repaid as promptly as possible
Does not display wealth, money, or possessions
Does not put his manner on or off whether in a club or in a ballroom
He treats people with courtesy whatever social position they may be
Does not slap strangers at the back, so much as to lay a finger to a lady
Does not “lick the boots” of those above him or “kick the faces” of those below him in the social ladder
Does not take advantage of another’s helplessness nor assumes that no gentleman will take advantage of him
A GENTLEMAN respects the reserves of others but demands that others respect those which are his.
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